It turned out to be better than we thought...

Somebody said it right, "The universe doesn't give you what you ask for with your thoughts; it gives you what you demand with your actions!"

After every activity, we tend to consider what if, what if, and most of the time, this what if is negative, and our thoughts are scattered. But what happens if we even believe for a second that it might turn out better than we could have imagined?

Nothing extreme, but perhaps we will be able to relax, not obsess about the worst-case scenarios on the first day, sleep better, and not overthink or exaggerate things in our brains.

There are things in life that are beyond our control, and we don't like them. However, in this scenario, we can try to calm down, relax, and think about it before deciding if the outcome would be positive or negative. However, it is sometimes difficult to predict the outcome; in those cases, one can simply wait for the right time because it will happen and we will know at that time and deal with it accordingly.

In every element of life, this is true!

See someone close to you betrayed you; it would be very challenging to imagine a happy outcome at this point. Anger, despair, and a desire for vengeance would likely be experienced by some, while others might feel guilt. Spend some time relaxing and calming down after the sudden occurrence of that incident. Yes, you never expected this to happen, but it did. Since there is nothing you can do about it, take it as an experience & move on.

In life, you won't always be successful, you won't always get what you want, and it could hurt and cause pain and give the impression that only negative things will happen. At those moments, just look around you to see how valuable you are to the people there. You are  someone's child, someone's crazy sister, someone's best friend, someone's inspiration, someone's smile, someone's love, and someone's entire life. Then, and only then, will you understand how precious and exquisite life is.

It was like a dream to me to be able to study overseas. Everything was ready; I had received a scholarship, my results, and an unconditional offer. Amazing right? Everything was just perfect. But then Covid happened.

The whole word went under lockdown, and I didn't want to start my master's degree online for so much money when I could do it in my own country for less. Yeah! I was upset and sad since nothing was going as planned! But times have changed, and I am now working in an international environment while pursuing my master's degree online. I am happy, and I am blessed with multiple exciting opportunities.

Naruto once remarked, "If you don't like your fate, don't accept it; instead, have the courage to change it!" We all have the power to change our destiny. Nobody can ever tell you what you should do with your life. It is your life; live it how you wish. Don't worry about what others will think of you; nowadays, they will change their view of you simply by learning how much you earn, so relax.

You must not just work hard, but you must also believe in yourself. Accept and love yourself, and nothing will be difficult for you to achieve. And every negative thinking will have to be transformed into a positive one via hard work and patience.

& we all will learn it with time, it is no magic it is a life that we have to live :)