That's where it all ends...

Hello peeps! Thanks for your time & welcome back to another new blog of Aao sochte hain!

It's hard know to let go of someone!

It's hard not to think of the fact that they might return.

It's hard when you are low & the only person you miss is them.

It's hard when you listen to the song and every fucking word reminds you of them.

If all your answers are Yes! Welcome to the club of all those people who are heartbroken may be because of someone or maybe they were responsible for it.

However, it's not a comfortable situation to be in, to block every person out there, to be depressed, to not do your best, to cry, to feel low, to just lie on the bed all day or watch stupid series until 4 am just because you can't sleep. It hurts! It fucking hurts!

People say, when it's meant to be, it will happen or there are so many good quotes and shayaris everywhere on social media to make us realise that the hope is not yet gone, there is still light! But don't you think all that is a lie which you are telling yourself every single day so that you can just miss them or think about them?

Whether you are listening to Arijit or Darshan or for that matter King or AP Dhillon or maybe taylor swift or Selena, there are these songs which make you think that "Yes! I have been wronged, I don't deserve this" & then there are songs which hurt you like hell and can make you cry instantly with that one fucking line "Zindagi or kuch bhi nahi teri meri kahani hai."

Going out every single day putting up that best smile of yours and pretending to be just fine, that everything is okay, actually perfect! I would say you are strong but...for how long? For how long you can keep up this role play this perfect image! When can you finally accept the fact that they are gone and it's okay, yes it will hurt, yes it was wrong that shouldn't have happened, yes there are times when you fucking wanna scream so loud that even god can hear you! But they are gone and you deserve better.

You were living before you met them and you are going to live after they are gone from your life! It will be depressing, it will be messed up, it will be crazy, but one day it will all be fine and it would make sense! People do promises like "No matter what happens we will be friends." This fucking doesn't happen and one day you will see them and they won't even recognise you and that's okay because you got a chance right there to move on, to get the closure you needed to end all of this, to be a better version for your loved ones and for yourself.

Nobody is that important who can replace the love of a family, mom, dad, brother, sister, best friend or that one cousin who listened and they didn't judge you for loving! They will not judge you for crying and they won't judge you for even being weird for some time, but they want you to become a better person for yourself, and love yourself more than anybody else.

I agree, trusting someone again won't be easy, loving someone again won't be easy and nobody is asking you to quickly switch to another man or woman. Your heart plays stupid games and reminds you of all those memories when taking a step towards moving on, you just have to listen to your mind! Sometimes, when a heart can't take a decision cause it is broken, it's okay to listen to your mind which already knew all of this and warned you, but you were stupid or just that you were in love ;)

It's okay cause one day it will be time to let go, a time when it all ends!

Not because it was a bad story - no, not at all. You learnt from it, you loved someone, you felt good, you smiled, and you made memories to last a lifetime. But it was time for you to begin something much more beautiful for yourself.

and when you realise that, that's where it all ends...

And it doesn't mean that you now will have to reserve and love in moderation and put on that fake smile. NO, it is your new beginning, and you have the whole new world out there, the way you love is perfectly fine even if it's too much, cause one day one person would be an answer as to why you were heartbroken today.

See you in the next blog!