Turning 25!
- Aao Sochte hain
- Aug 27, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Aug 31, 2023
This is a surprise blog! Welcome & thank you all for your amazing wishes.
This blog is not about big long paragraphs but just about some lessons I have learnt in this one year!

It's okay to be selfish sometimes!
Your parents will understand your situation and will be there for you no matter what (so tell them everything).
Being financially independent is very important, period.
If you love too much, it's gonna hurt too much :)
Crying always helps, it doesn't mean you are weak instead you are just dealing with the emotions or the situation in your own way.
Everything cannot be done together, but when it is falling apart all might fall together, you just need to focus on what truly matters.
The grass is always greener on the other side but who knows which shade of green is the best one?
I have the freedom to choose and be what I want to be in my life, but that choice comes with the trust that my parents have in me :)
Sometimes trusting the wrong one can be a good lesson to last a lifetime.
Don't be in a hurry, "this has not happened, and that has not happened", instead appreciate and be happy in the moment that you have come so far.
Sometimes being quiet doesn't mean you are wrong or you are dumb, sometimes it just means you don't want to be a part of that conversation anymore.
There will be people around you who will say a lot of things about you, "You don't have self-respect, you don't know this", but the only thing that matters is your inner peace, If you are not at peace, everything will be a mess!
There will be moments when you will feel like nothing is going your way and suddenly there will be someone sending you a gift or reminding you how important you are to them. (Cheers to my brother, I love him)
Don't forget that you will never forget your first love, but you will also not forget your last!
You will be a villain in a lot of stories, and you know what it's okay.
Never let the third person take charge of your life or your things, they tend to ruin everything.
Reading a book always gives a piece of advice, you might need at that time.
There will be times you will hear about something so unbelievable that you would love your life and thank god for every moment of it.
There will be promises you won't be able to keep, and that's okay.
All the answers you are looking for are with you! (Just sit with yourself).
If it's not in your destiny, crying or praying wouldn't help, but accepting it might help.
Imagining things is a part of life 😂 and it will never end!
Don't get attached to your comfort zone, it's dangerous keep trying, keep learning.
When you finally learn to say no and not be bothered by it, you are the most powerful person in the room.
Somewhere that 15-year-old version of me would be proud of who I've become today. She'd also be glad about the progress I've achieved—there's more to accomplish, but patience is important.
Choose you fav one and let me know on Insta or in comments below.
Thanks :)
True words